A very memorable day.

Just now, I went up to the stage said a speech during the closing ceremony of the 3 days
Adam Khoo Workshop.
Well, because I was nervous I did not said all the things that I want to say.
I will write it in here so you guys can learn the morals from it.

Speech
Well, I'm here to tell you about my family. I hope you guys can learn the morals that I
learned from it. You know why I was a happy guy in school? Because I have learn from the incident happened to my parents. My parents were divorced since I was in K1.
I had to accept it because if i do not, my studies and my future will be affected.
I had to face it with optimistic and move on. If not, i wouldn't be here in this secondary school. This made me learn the moral, "Be optimistic about every matters and accept it. Never ever
let it affects your focus or your emotion."

Then, I followed my mother and my mother now remarried to a man who is my stepfather now.
When i was in P5, i committed a serious mistake. That is steal. My stepfather was very angry
about what i had done. He then, throw everything he sees on me and scolded vulgarities on me.
I was scared. The next moment, i saw my mother stood in front of me and defended me and
took the blows by the mad bull. I was petrified and shocked. I did not know what to do. I feel
so powerless in front of this mad bull and can't protect my mother. Then, one thing came to my mind. That was to call police. I wanted to run and call but my mum stopped me. I was so guilty and hate my stepfather then. But now, he become less aggressive and violence and treat me nicer. With his change, i decided to give him one more chance and forgive him. This made me
learn the moral, "Everyone deserves a second chance. Give it to them."

Nowadays, people tend to get emotionally upset because of a matter and give up everything in
their life. I think it is very stupid of them doing it. Just not long ago, I got rejected again by a girl whom i like. So, did i go jump off the building because of her? No. Did i go emo because of her? No. Did i give up on everything because of her? No. Did i go mad because she says i was
irritating? No. I accept it and treat it as a learning lesson. I learn what are the mistakes and
change myself so that i won't commit it again. I moved on and carry on with my life.
Some people will give up everything because of 1 obstacle or 1 failure they faced in life.
I think they are stupid. Why? Because they had wasted their time living. Their future is destroyed because of one obstacle or failure that they faced. If they want to give up or get too
emotional about it, i think they should not to be born into this world because they had already wasted people's time, the oxygen and the food. So did I too emotional about my parents divorcing? No. I accept it and carry on my life. The moral i have learned is , "Never trapped in
the past, move forward. Past is not equal to the future."

These 3 morals that i have learned made me a better person now. Some people may be embarrased in sharing their bad family condition. But i do not feel that. In fact, i feel proud
in sharing that because i have learned important morals from it. I hope you guys will learn the morals from my story. Thank You.

That's what all i want to say. If you guys want to know about my family, feel free to ask me.
That's all for now. Bye.